Giving Back: Why Lifting Others Changes How We Feel
Yoga, science and community beyond the mat. Giving back sits very comfortably alongside yoga practice, it supports others and your yoga community too.
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There’s a moment after class...the classic yoga glow, that post-savasana feeling where you leave the studio a bit lighter and smilier than when you arrived. If we practice regularly enough, that sense of ease can start to seep out into the rest of life. We might notice a different tone in how we speak to people, or to ourselves. What we pay attention to. Whether we try to soften or tighten as we move through the world. That has certainly been my experience of it.
“Yoga does not just change the way we see things, it transforms the person who sees.” — attributed to B.K.S. Iyengar
Seva in ordinary life
In yoga philosophy there’s the idea of seva - service.
It’s often described as selfless action, but my experience is anything but that... the positive effects are very clear, smile on your face, warm feeling inside, pride, gratitude, connection, endorphins...nervous system regulation. It's fab.
Seva, for me, is very rewarding and gives way more than it costs. Small acts of kindness from my little Pause yoga community matter. A bit of time. A bit of care. Thinking about others, lifting them up, helping people to feel seen, or to progress in little ways or to find a bit more comfort and joy in every day.
Yoga practice invites awareness to our breath, body, mind and as that awareness develops, it changes how we meet ourselves, and that naturally affects how we meet other people. In yogic philosophy, this is reflected in the Yamas with principles like non-harming, truthfulness, and wise use of energy. The Niyamas turn that same awareness inward, shaping clarity, self-study, and how we take responsibility for our inner state. Together they point towards something very simple: practice doesn’t stay personal for long. It influences how we behave, and how we contribute to the people around us.
Seva sits within that - service as part of practice, not separate from it.
What science notices too
There’s a term often used - the “helper’s high”. A lift in mood that can come after doing something for someone else. It’s linked with the brain’s reward system, but most people don’t need the neuroscience to recognise it. You feel it in your body before you can explain it.
Studies in positive psychology suggest that people often report higher wellbeing when they give time, energy or resources to others, compared with when everything is directed inward. Volunteering is also linked with lower stress and greater life satisfaction over time.
Awe and connection are at the heart of this. When we contribute to someone else’s wellbeing, this takes us slightly beyond ourselves and we tend to feel less separate in our own lives. Psychologists describe awe as experiences of “vastness” that can shift how we see our place in the world. It might be standing in nature, watching a storm roll in, or even witnessing human kindness.
What this looks like in a yoga community
At Pause Yoga, our giving back has grown over the past 5 years and our community are really positive about it. We started supporting Bishika's education via Lincs2Nepal, changing her future opportunities, then twinning the studio toilet with a latrine in Nepal through Toilet Twinning and a small loan to support a woman developing her farming business through Lendwithcare - their loans are repaid and re-lent, so the support keeps circulating.
Alongside that there are local things. Free yoga classes for local carers and volunteers in our community. Winter walking groups when the days are short and we are more isolated. Summer swims when the days are longer and people feel like getting together for a laugh and time in nature, letters to strangers through kindness by post and festive donation drives to alleviate period poverty in our local communities.
We've raised money supporting national projects too, we had a fundraising day last summer for Breast Cancer Now and this year Free yoga for Brain Health and Trek26 for Alzheimer's Society.
None of it is particularly grand and yet it feels really good.
The helpers high
Small acts of contribution are now part of our Pause Yoga identity, our yogi's belong to it. There’s a sense of shared care that means something to us all.
I hear it in the conversations before class and in the way people hang around a little longer gathering their things. In how they begin to meet up beyond the mat and in how they contribute to our projects when they come up.
On giving and feeling good
People might ask whether giving back still counts if it makes us feel better. I think it's a win, win.
It's a brilliant thing. It's really heartwarming and ace. That doesn’t take away from the impact it doubles it!
Maybe that’s what seva really points to. Not a perfect kind of selflessness, but a willingness and an ability to stay in relationship with others. To act, even in small ways, and notice how brilliant that is for us too.
What teachers can actually do
Your yoga community will grow and bond through seva too I'm sure - your version of it will look unique to you...some ideas could be:
- choosing one cause that your community care about and can offer ( maybe long term) support to
- offering a space in your yoga for people who spend their lives caring for others
- creating simple ways for communities to contribute together
- naming what already exists within your yoga community rather than adding more
Giving back sits very comfortably alongside yoga practice, it supports others and your yoga community too - it really is a win, win - we are all connected after all.